It Only Takes 21 Days to Break a Habit

3 Simple Steps 

Day 0 – TODAY

1.  Create a 21 day plan to make or break a habit

Day 1-20

2.   Check in with yourself or a accountability partner every day for 20 days

Day 21

3.   Enjoy yourself and repeat days 1-20 or create a new challenge



Let’s make it even easier

Plan Details – Things To Include In Your Plan

  • Make Sure You Put Your Plan In Writing!!!!!
  • Write down why you want to make or break this habit
    • For example why you want to lose weight (to be healthy, to look good, self-confidence…)
  • Identify your trigger
    • Write down your triggers
    • Write down your how to get around your triggers (PLAN NOW you will need this info.)
      • Plan your meals, time, make a budget …..
  • Write out positive affirmations   (Repeat Out Loud Several Times A Day)

  • note cards, post-its, flyers, screen savers (place them where you will see them)
    • put them on mirrors (that you
    • on the steering wheel of your car
    • on the refrigerator
    • on the computer
  • Constant contact
    • Engage others in what you are doing (Talk About It)
    • Check in everyday with yourself and/ or your accountability partner
    • Review your plan
      • If any trigger devils showed up today, how did you get around them? If the trigger devil got you today how do you plan to defeat him or future devils?

Visualize Yourself Achieving Your New Habit!




100 Things To Be Grateful For:

1. My beautiful and loving daughter Ariel Chenoea
2. My sweet, spirited, seamstress, soul-food cooking mother Debra Davis
3. Chocolate
4. Progress
5. My soft, natural, and curly hair
6. Turning 40!
7. Forgiveness
8. God
9. Change
10. Motivation
11. My spiritual leaders
12. Naps on a rainy day
13. Self-Confidence
14. My wonderful friends – Andrea, Andrietta, Dorcas, George, Sharon, Marlene, Ursula, Verna, Vicki….
15. Pedicures
16. All of life’s lessons
17. Being loved
18. The time my dad was present in my life
19. Stewart Glen Fitchpatrick – my Cairn Terrier
20. Being able to think “Outside the Box”

The Peace of God Surpasses All Understanding

21. Four Great Brothers and One Wonderful Sister – Damon, James, Keith, Keion, and Erin
22. People who to share and sow seeds of knowledge in my life
23. Cute shoes that don’t hurt
24. My home
25. A creative ability
26. Paper sack brown skin
27. My car
28. My spiritual relationship with God
29. Coffee
30. The President of the United States of America – Barack Obama
31. The light bulb going off (aha moments)
32. Being a great follower
33. Being a great leader
34. Compliments
35. Disney
36. Hot baths
37. Knowing there is some good in everyone
38. St. Jude Children’s Hospital
39. Good health
40. My success coaches (past, present, and future)

41. The beach
42. Sunrises
43. A good life
44. Strawberries and pineapples
45. People that allow me to share my gift with them
46. My future
47. Knowing my purpose
48. A mind to serve God and others
49. My education
50. My 2 nieces and nephew
51. A good book
52. Sunshine
53. Knowing when to ask for help and receiving it
54. My job
55. Loving me
56. For making right choices
57. My future spouse
58. New experiences
59. Exercise
60. Being able to pursue my dreams

61. Organizational skills
62. Cell phones
63. My loving, always got my back family
64. My country
65. No regrets
66. Vacations
67. Rains
68. Flowers
69. For a giving spirit
70. Today
71. Being able to write and speak positive change into the life of others
72. Diamonds
73. Farmers
74. Others finding happiness and self-worth
75. Seafood
76. People who serve and protect us
77. Courage
78. Music
79. Never meeting a stranger
80. Opportunities

81. Clean water
82. Food
83. Photographs
84. Positive thinking
85. Memories
86. For the 100 lbs. I will lose over the next 10 months
87. Money
88. Educators
89. My heart
90. A sense of sight, touch, smell, taste, hearing
91. Tears
92. My speaking ability
93. Great legs
94. Happiness
95. The moon and stars
96. Technology
97. My enemies
98. You reading my blog
99. Peace
100. My past, present, and future Life – Hears to living it like its GOLDEN!



San Davis